An exclusive interview with a true Goddess - Mistress Heather from Femme Fatale Films
Mistress Heather has been one of the leading Dommes on Femme Fatale Films since its launch back in 2011. I talk to her in an exclusive interview about her past, her present and her future as the female force behind Femme Fatale Films.
When did you first realise you had a dominant side and how did it reveal itself?
Whilst having been a relatively shy child, I'd always had a discreet manipulative and sadistic streak in me when it came to boys. But at that age, it is not something that you relate to sexually. I recall seeing a documentary about New York's prostitution scene in the early 90's and in particular, one lady who would dominate her client using sandpaper to masturbate him - it's funny how certain things stick in your mind. That scene definitely made something click.
A few years later I remember watching the Nick Broomfield documentary on New York's Pandora's Box, ‘Fetishes’ from 1996 ( click here to play the trailer ) and being hugely fascinated by the women, the men, the activities and the equipment (so much so that I later spent some time reprimanding NYC slaves at Pandora's Box). Finding that there was a whole new and alternative world dedicated to such wonderfully wicked things was certainly a step towards understanding my dominant nature. In my teenage years I loved to wear sexy PVC clothing and skyscraper heels, which always caught people’s attention and made me feel very 'bad'. With my attire and the things that I had seen in documentaries and magazines, adopting a naughty and haughty persona seemed to flow quite naturally.
When did you turn pro and did you have any training or just find your way on your own?
I entered the world of pro domination some 13 years ago now, back in 2002 while living in Brighton, England. The burning desire to dominate men grew and after some research I found a local Mistress who offered me her guidance. She has since retired but I have many fond memories of sessions with her. It wasn't too long before I was offering sessions on my own but a Mistress is always developing her skills, whether that be hands on with a guinea pig slave, through workshops with specialised practitioners or through literature.
I've been making FemDom movies since 2003 although I haven't modelled for very many sites, despite a plethora of invitations, since I have always been very particular about the presentation of a website and its production values. I've shot numerous clips with Woman Worship and some shoots for Goddess Alexia's Platinum Cage.
Do you go to fetish clubs, what's your favourite club night?
I was a regular attendee of London's Club Pedestal in its very early days. My first attendance at the club was back in 2003 and I often helped out as a resident Domme with the house-slave training evenings, in preparation for the main event. I love the FemDom ethos of the club and it was always enjoyable to put potential house slaves through their paces at the training evenings.
London's Club Smack and Essex's Club Twisted were my favourite fetish non FemDom specific clubs - sadly both stopped running many years ago. While I prefer more intimate FemDom events, the region of Spain where I now reside doesn't have any regular clubs, but these days I can occasionally be seen at larger European fetish events such as Wasteland or Dominatrix, if it coincides with my travel plans.
What kind of BDSM play do you most enjoy?
It really does depend entirely on whom I'm playing with and the energy that flows between us. What I may enjoy with one slave, may not be so favourable with another. I enjoy the psychological aspect of a FemDom relationship the most. Manipulatively using my seductive feminine charms to transform and ensnare a submissive into my perfect slave is a great thrill. Making them dependant on my leadership, but training them to show initiative in always striving to please and serve me to the best of their abilities. I adore role-play, especially when it incorporates some of my favourite activities.
As a Pro Domina I have enjoyed receiving many wonderful scenarios from my clients to be creative with - a base idea that I can spend days or even weeks developing. I especially love nipple torment, CBT and ball-busting - anything that allows me to be able to look deep into a slave’s eyes as I inflict pain is a huge thrill for me. It gives me immense pleasure to humiliate a slave - both verbal and physical. Leaving a slave feeling utterly degraded leaves me feeling utterly turned on! Strap on is amongst my favourite activities - the psychological and lasting impression it leaves on a slave, is one of pure FemDom.
What's your favourite fetish wear?
I've always had a fetish for corsets, vintage inspired lingerie and beautiful delicate stockings. With corsets it's not just the many varied and beautiful designs I like to collect, it's also the way they help maintain perfect posture and accentuate curves. I'm particularly in love with under-bust corsets at the moment.
I have a deep fetish for traditional fully fashioned nylons, especially the Point and Manhattan heel. I adore the way that the sheer silky fabric glides over your skin. It's a self indulgent and luxurious fetish I get a great deal of personal pleasure from.
Latex has always been a firm favourite for fetish wear - the feel, the smell, the taste and the way it compliments a woman's shape. There are many wonderful latex designers around these days and I have a number of pieces that are custom made. I feel incredibly sexy and powerful whilst being worshipped in latex - feeling a very lucky slave's warm tongue pleasing me through the second skin is a highly pleasurable experience.
My collection of leather attire is becoming more prominent in my kinky closet. What I especially love about leather is its versatility for everyday life. Just a simple pair of tight leather trousers, concealing my favourite leather knee boots beneath, is enough to turn many heads in public.
What about footwear, do you prefer shoes or boots?
I don't really have a preference over shoes or boots, I love them both in equal measure, but I pretty much always insist on platforms and usually with an elegant stiletto heel. I have an ever growing collection of over 200 pairs at last count and it's true when they say a lady can never have too many 😉
Are you still offering personal sessions?
I guess you could call me semi-retired from private sessions. Since taking over Femme Fatale Films, much of my time is spent running the website. I now only accept extended sessions with applicants that especially interest me. It's a nice position to be in.
So no more conventional one or two hour encounters for slaves?
When I'm travelling to do filming for Femme Fatale Films, I may on the odd occasion announce a session date or two and with these I do accept one hour sessions - this is incredibly rare though! Most of my sessions these days are with international devotees over a few days and these are the sessions that I enjoy the most. Getting to know someone over a longer period of time is so much more satisfying on so many levels. I adore travelling and meeting polite gentlemen from all over the world and slowly breaking them down day by day, morphing them into my perfect slave.
So what does the future hold for Femme Fatale Films?
I have a good few new ideas in the melting pot, too many in fact to mention here and now. It's always important for any evolving business to adapt to ever changing market forces, but I will never compromise my desire for quality, that's certainly a constant that the many FFF fans can always rely on.
All of the movies on FFF have always been and will continue to be a true representation of the individual Mistresses, either in session or expressed through role-play. So what our members get is real FemDom, not FemDom in the blinkered style of some domineering director. I also insist on letting the action flow naturally in scenes, so the chemistry between Mistress and slave can develop. There's nothing worse than stop-start productions - it doesn’t help the Mistress or slave!
How have you adapted to life in sunny Spain?
It's been great! I love life here, there's something about waking up to blue skies every day that makes for clear and positive thoughts! Maybe that's reflected in why the website over these last 12 months has seen memberships soar to an all time high! I'm very fortunate to have a great lifestyle and a beautiful villa in which to reside. I have a select few slaves who work the mundane chores around the house and grounds, which gives me time to let my creative juices flow into Femme Fatale Films 😉
Well thank you for your time and enlightenment Mistress Heather! It's been a pleasure talking with you and I wish you continued success in your business!